OVERVIEW
- Your Role: Play Partner
- Role Type: Paid Experience Co-Creator
- Relationship Dynamic: (Paid) Play Partnership
TIME COMMITMENT
- Pre-session hangout, ideally at a sex-positive scene party (e.g. Four Play, Lunacy, Paradise Garage, Buttons (unpaid). How long we stay out depends on our vibe and energy level at the moment. If we’re feeling it, we can stay out longer. If not, we can call it a night early and move to the play part of the experience.
- 3-hour edging session (paid)
ROLE DESCRIPTION
This is a part-time role for someone who enjoys touch, rhythm, responsiveness, and deep physical presence. We meet, ideally at a party, enjoy being out together and build up some tension. Then release the tension out or at my place where you edge me using your hands, your feet, and possibly your mouth depending on what we’ve agreed. I lead the session with clear guidance and requests. You follow. No need to perform or lead. We focus, we check in, we communicate, we adjust, and we stay present.
Sessions end with cuddling, conversation, and care. If we connect well, this can become an ongoing thing. Compensation is €60–80/hour depending on the session type, with a 3-hour minimum for the edging part.
WHO I’M LOOKING FOR (IDEALLY)
- Women (birth-assigned or trans), between 25–45
- Queer or sex-positive scene aligned (left leaning, open-minded, body aware, emotionally grounded)
- Good, giving, and game (ggg), communicative and respectful
- Enthusiastic (or curious) about edging, slowness, and staying present
- 170 cm or taller
- Shoe size EU 39 or bigger
- Strong, flexible feet, ideally with high arches
PHYSICAL BOUNDARIES AND MUTUAL PLEASURE
- You should be a generous and enthusiastic giver, especially physically, when you choose to give.
- This is not a performance or a transaction, you’ll have space to feel into what’s right for you in the moment.
- My boundaries: I’m open to making out, using my hands, and giving oral. I don’t offer penetrative sex in these experiences.
- Yours: entirely up to you. There’s no pressure to give anything, and nothing is expected.
- Note on scene prep: I may ask for small things to support the vibe, for example, specific footwear or a short role-play. These are discussed and agreed in advance.
THE CLIMAX GAME
This is the heart of the experience. We’re not rushing to finish, we’re building tension, connection, and arousal over time. Your role is to help me get turned on, worked up, and desperate to finish, so that when it finally happens, it’s explosive.
- We co-create the build up tension through edging, staying present, and enjoying the pleasure along the way without rushing and focusing on cumming.
- At the very end, we focus on the climax. Usually with you using your feet, and following my guidance, you try to make it as intense and satisfying as possible.
- The game is simple: see how much pressure can we build, and how high in the air can you make me spray.
- Sometimes it lands on my chest. Sometimes it hits me in the face. Once it went over my shoulder and hits the wall. That’s the fantasy, not the point. The point is to have fun playing the game.
- It’s not about achieving a perfect outcome. It’s about being in it together, enjoying the moment, and feeling the intensity.
EXPERIENCE OPTIONS
Experience 1: Edge Me With Your Hands and Feet
- Long, slow edging session using your hands and feet
- Touch guided by my cues, my body, and our shared rhythm
- Oral is welcome if you feel it, but never expected
- Ends with cuddling, conversation, and care
- Compensation: €60/hour (minimum 3 hours)
Experience 2: Edge Me With Your Hands, Feet, and Mouth
- Everything in Edge Me With Your Hands and Feet
- Oral is part of the session
- Still slow, still led by my body and cues
- Ends with cuddling, conversation, and care
- Compensation: €80/hour (minimum 3 hours)
Open Invitation: Negotiated Play
- Sometimes the vibe is strong enough that we don’t need to name a price
- If we both feel a yes, I’m open to exploring without compensation
- This only happens when the energy is mutual and enthusiastic
- No pressure, ever, just clarity and choice
SAFETY AND DISCRETION
- Consent, clear communication, and mutual respect are foundational to every experience
- Safe sex is essential and non-negotiable
- What we share stays between us your privacy is as important as mine
- If we see each other in public, we follow your lead unless we’ve agreed otherwise
EXPERIENCE LOGISTICS
- We play in my clean, private home in Berlin
- You’ll have time to settle in and decompress before we begin
- Showering is available after the session
- I provide clean towels, basic toiletries, and a calm, comfortable vibe
- Payment is made at the end of the session
MAJOR KEYS
- This isn’t about being perfect. It’s about feeling good, staying open, and being real
- You don’t need experience to do this. Just openness, enthusiasm, and a willingness to co-create
- If it feels like an enthusiastic yes, go to the next page and fill out the short form. I’ll follow up by email or text, whether it’s a match or not.